Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit.
I am a very private person, yet I am an open book.
If you don’t ask…I won’t tell.
This is me , if wanna get to know me , u gotta ask question
i swear this is me. I literally have three books of questions that i have access to when i talk to people, and yet, people rarely do that to me. There are very few exceptions that i just volunteer info about me, asking questions is the way to go